Baptism of Children

Children or infants are those who have not yet reached the age of discernment (8 Years of age) and therefore cannot have or profess personal faith.  From the earliest times, the Church, to which the mission of preaching the Gospel and of baptizing was entrusted, has baptized children as well as adults. Our Lord said: "Unless a man is reborn in water and the Holy Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God." (John 3:5).   

This faith is proclaimed for them by their parents and godparents, who represent both the local Church and the whole society of saints and believers: "The Church is at once the mother of all and the mother of each." (St. Augustine)

Because of the natural relationship, parents have a more important ministry and role in the Baptism of infants than the godparents. Each child may have a godfather and a godmother (but must have at least one who is a practicing, fully initiated catholic).

Practical Things

Information needed for the interview:
A copy of the child’s birth certificate from the county; parent’s address, phone number and status (married, married in Church or civilly only, single); names of godparents. 

For Parents:
Contact the Parish Office between 8AM and 8PM on Mondays, between 8 AM and 5 PM, Tuesday through Friday or between 8:30 AM and 12:30 PM on Saturdays.  You will be given a date for an appointment and the time of the interview.

For the interview you must have a copy of the child's County Issued Birth Certificate in your possession. If appropriate, you will be signed up for the Baptismal Preparation Class (these are held one evening a month in the Ministry Center). Both the father and the mother of the baby are required to attend these classes; if the godparents live in this Parish, they must attend these classes also. If they do not live in this Parish, they must attend the Baptismal Preparation Classes at their Parish. 

If you would like to have your child Baptized within a few weeks after birth, you should get all of your preparation done before the child is born.  Once the County issued Birth Certificate is available and all preparation has been completed, then a date can be set.
Godparents who are from another Parish must complete a "Sponsor for Baptism Form".  This form will need to be filled out, signed  by the Pastor, have the Parish Seal, and then returned to us. If the interview and Baptismal Preparation Class take place before the birth of the child, a copy of the County issued Birth Certificate must be obtained and submitted to the Parish Office before the date of the Baptism can be set.

For Godparents:
The role of the godparent is to help their godchild lead a Christian life. Also, if the parents would not be able to fulfill their responsibility any longer, the godparents will ensure the Christian upbringing of the child. The godparent must be Catholic, must have received all 3 Sacraments of Initiation (Baptism, Eucharist, Confirmation), be in good standing with the Catholic Church, must practice his/her faith actively, and if married, they must be married in the Catholic Church.

If the godparent is not married and has a live-in partner, such a person is not acceptable for the role of a godparent! If a person is a Christian but not a Catholic, he/she can only be a witness to the Baptism, but not a godparent! Non-baptized persons cannot be either a godparent or a witness.  None the less, there must be at least one Catholic Godparent.
Once the requirements are met, the date for Baptism will be scheduled. Baptism are community affairs - there are no private Baptisms!

Registered parishioners of St. Bernard’s who wish to have a baptism or be a godparent in another parish, must call the Office to schedule an interview appointment.

For further information you may contact the Parish Office at 209-835-4560